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Faye {5 Months}

15 August 2015

Faye's Fifth Month:

 Weight: don't know...16+ pounds
Height:  won't know until our 6-mo pediatrician appointment
Size Clothes: 6 month clothes, almost exclusively

I'm going to try a different format for these monthly updates, which I hope will better capture some of the day-to-day sweetness. Here are a few sweet moments I wrote down this month:

7/15: We had the most tender moment together this evening after work. I was sitting in bed, holding you in the air. You leaned forward until your face was close to mine. You cupped my cheek with your hand and studied my face so intently. While my heart surged with love, I looked deep in your eyes and thought how lucky that our souls reunited in this lifetime. I can't wait to see what you'll teach me.

7/20: Our bedtime routine is so sweet. I think I look forward to it as much as you do (minus the sometimes fussing and crying to get mommy to move faster.) Once we are in bed you are just frantic to nurse right away, even though often you're not that hungry. After you drink for awhile, on the nights when it's 6:30pm instead of 7pm, you start to softly coo in the dark and just seem to enjoy the quiet snuggle time. Tonight I softly sang some SRF chants to you, which you enjoyed. It's sweet how much you love my singing (must be unconditional love!)

7/20: Yesterday you wanted to hold my hands so you could pull yourself from the lying down position to sitting up. From there, you wanted to pull yourself into a standing position. I'd never seen you do this before. Today, it's like your new thing. I'm amazed how one day something is new, and the next it's like you have it mastered. You're getting so strong and coordinated and aware of your body. I love watching you grow and learn and am truly in awe of you.

7/20: Just when I start to question your nighttime feedings and wonder if I should be sleep training you, I read a couple chapters of "Sweet Sleep" and was reminded how normal it you get 1/3 of your calories it's our important bonding time after a full day away from each other...and how lucky I am that I get to snuggle you all night and meet all your needs for food and comfort. What a gift! Yes, I've had some nights of very interrupted sleep...but we manage and always seem to find time to sneak in a nap together or sleep in on the weekend to make up for it.

Since writing the last paragraph about sleep--two things have happened that are making our nights much more enjoyable. 1) I stopped looking at the clock and tracking how many times we are up. 2) We have mastered side-by-side nursing. Now I'm not spending much time awake at all and not analyzing whether you're hungry or how long it's been or how long before we get up for the day....I just pull you close and you nurse. I fall back asleep and we are both happy :)

Your physical capabilities have advanced so much this month! You grab everything in hair, my face, toys, carseat straps, your pacifier clip, your clothes, your feet...the list goes on! You play with your pacifier now as much as you actually suck on it. Everything goes in the mouth and we cannot seem to keep your chin dry because there's constant drool from you licking and sucking on everything.

You grew into your bouncer this month. At first it was very over-stimulating to you and it was only fun for a few minutes at a time. Now you're like an old pro and you love spending time in there. We laugh and laugh at how much time is spent with your face pressed against the rolling cylinder. You just spin it and lick it until your nose turns pink from being smooshed for so long!

You used to hate tummy you will only spend time on your tummy. If we lay you on your back, you roll right over.  Katie learned the hard way when you rolled off the couch at her house! But you're tough and only cried for a minute. You really want to crawl, and truth be told, you can. You've got the 360 movements down and you can backward crawl. You don't seem to know it yet though...probably because you're wishing you could go forward toward the things you see. Nonetheless, after five or ten minutes on the floor, you end up in a very different spot than you started. The days are numbered before we'll have to baby proof the house and keep a very close eye on you!

This past month has been a great one for the whole family. We've really settled into a routine with work, household duties, and spending quality time with you. You get to stay home with Daddy on Friday's and that's been a huge blessing for all of us. You two have bonded so much during that time and it's been a joy to observe. Also, your dad's confidence as a parent has grown tremendously and he's even washing & stuffing cloth diapers now! We are pretty lucky.

I've figured out a pretty good work-life balance and am no longer feeling much "mommy guilt." One day I had a late evening event for work, so we went to a Mommy & Me Music class (pictured above) before I dropped you at daycare in the morning. While I don't love the occasional late night at work, I am thankful for the flexibility in my schedule and I think we get a lot more time together than many other moms who work full-time.

Last Wednesday, I had an all-day work meeting in Orange County and I didn't think I would be home to see you before bedtime. But the traffic gods smiled on me, and I made it home at 6:25pm. I was ecstatic to get a little time together before bed and was just soaking it in. You were equally happy to see me. There was a moment when you were laying on your back and I had my face just over yours. I wasn't doing or saying anything, just smiling at you. You started grinning from ear to ear, and were smiling so hard that you couldn't help but giggle. This smiling and giggling went on for a minute or two. You were just so happy to see me that you couldn't contain it. It was so touching to me, because I felt the same, but it was the first time you expressed an emotion that made me realize that although you were a happy, content baby for your dad, you truly missed me and were so glad when I got home.

Every day with you gets better and better. I cannot wait to see what the next month brings. Love you baby girl!

Faye {4 Months}

20 July 2015

Faye's Fourth Month:

 Weight: 14 lb, 15 oz (now in the 90th percentile--girlfriend doesn't miss meals!)
Height:  25.5 in (also 90th percentile!)
Size Clothes: 3 month and 3-6month...some 6-mo stuff

Sleeping: You pretty much eat every 3 hours, day or night. However, we had to do some transitions this month with you spending more time at daycare where you weren't eating the same quantity, which resulted in a LOT of nighttime feedings. Some nights every 2 hours. But you have a really solid bedtime routine now and you turn into a pumpkin by 7pm. You sleep from 7pm-7am, waking up only to eat. Naptime has also gotten more predictable and we expect a 1.5-2 hour nap every afternoon, in addition to some short naps.

Nicknames: Peanut Pumpernickel McGillacuddy

Likes: Reaching, touching, and pulling toys; bath time & splashing; being held & worn

Dislikes: you still don't love tummy time, but are okay in spurts; you sometimes get a little fussy on our car ride home from daycare

first Yankees game

We started cloth diapers when you turned 3 months, 1 day old and we've never looked back. It took a little adjusting on my part, but I actually enjoy it quite a bit. Your little bum hasn't had even a hint of diaper rash, so I think that's a vote of approval.

 You started working hard on putting the pacifier in your mouth by yourself. By 6/26/15 you were able to do it. You have great hand-eye coordination that you continue working on.

We got to hear your first real laugh and it was so, so wonderful. I could see from your expression that you were just as surprised by the noises coming out of you. It's amazing that we didn't know what your laugh sounded like. Fortunately, we captured the moment on video!


While Grandma Gail was visiting, she taught you how to make a buzz sound with your lips. You figured out how to mimic her and now you make that sound regularly.

Grandma Gail visited you for 10 days

You sit up on your own! Over 4th of July we saw your friend Jake working on it with his momma, and we decided to try ourselves. After a couple of days, you were sitting up for 10 seconds unassisted. Then, almost overnight, you figured it out and can go long stretches. The pediatrician was blown away!

sitting up! big girl :)

hanging with Jake over 4th of July weekend

spontaneous hand holding <3

sweet visits with Aunt Renee

getting ready to walk to Starbucks

Faye, you are such a happy, sweet baby. We are lucky! At your 4-month checkup, you held the doctor's hand in both your hands while she listened to your heart. You smiled at her and it melted everyone. I've noticed that when you're in new environments, you like to quietly observe for awhile. You're not as talkative, smiley, or playful as you are at home until you've fully surveyed your new surroundings and all the people present. It's a sweet characteristic and I wonder if this will be your way in the world. It's been a fun month of playing and interacting. You're a little sponge and learning at such a fast rate, you amazed all of us--mom, dad, and grandma.

We had some transitions this month with Grandma Gail watching you during the day for a couple weeks, and then you started up daycare full-time. You've been really adaptable and go with the flow about it all. We love you soooooo much!

Faye {3 Months}

22 June 2015

{turned 3-months on June 12, 2015. The blog post is late...of course!}
You're so busy now it's getting hard to snap pictures of you
Your Aunt Becca came to visit and we had a fun girl's night that included Aunt Renee. You got loved on big time!

Your first time in a cloth diaper. It was a major fail--leakage everywhere!
(This was May 19 and since then you've grown into them.)

In the airport for our first flight to ABQ. Babywearing saved us and made it a really easy trip.
You slept the entire plane ride both directions.

We had a great visit with Aunt Beth and you got to meet your cousins who were really interested in you.

Faye's Third Month:

 Weight: 14 lbs approx.
Height:  won't know until 4mo checkup
Size Clothes: 3 month and 3-6month for everything

You still love sleeping with your head hanging off things.

And we still snooze together every chance we get :)

Sleeping: You still wake up to eat about every 3 hours at night. You are getting more predictable with nap time and bed time. Even during our two trips this month (both in different time zones), you pretty much kept to your "routine." You've had days where you sleep nearly all day it seems, which must be a sign of some major development. 

Nicknames: Peanut, Faybeline, Baby Girl

Oftentimes people think you're a boy unless I put a headband on you (which I rarely do)

first time laying in your crib

First time in the Bumbo

Likes: Your hands! You love to study them, put them in your mouth, lick them, and try to suck your thumb. You also love sitting up and standing up. You still like scratching your face a lot (boo!)

Dislikes: While tummy time still isn't your favorite, you've definitely turned a corner. You still cry post-bath, but I'd say your biggest dislike is loud noises.

I had to go back to work. Major dislike!
First time at the beach. In your new ring sling.

Enjoying the pool in Miami

Pool chic!

Milestones: You took two flights this month--to Albuquerque and Miami! Your neck control has gotten so good and even strangers remark about how unbelievably strong you are for your age. You are also working hard on hand-eye coordination and exploring the "squacking/screaming" aspect of your voice. You spent about 5 minutes in your crib for the first time ever. You went in a pool (and didn't care.) You spent time on the beach. You wore a cloth diaper for the first time.

Meeting Great Grandma Shirley during our FL trip

Too busy grabbing things to smile for the camera

Annoyed with mom after being repositioned for the hundredth time

Faye, we had such a great month together! You're growing and developing so rapidly. Now when you're awake we can really play together and talk to each other. Our bond keeps getting deeper and I cannot believe how much I enjoy spending time with you. It's really a joy to be your mom and I'm so thankful for your sweet and easy-going disposition. I tell you a million times a day--you're so loved!

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